Have you ever heard I HATE TO WRITE from your child?
For many of us, writing a shopping list is about the extent of our writing. So, it shouldn't come as a surprise to us when our children find it difficult to complete writing assignments in school. But how can we help?
I can remember when my daughter was in elementary school and the stress her and her classmates had was heavy. They had to write a story that included specific details, a clear outline, and little to no grammatical errors, all within a 60 minute time frame. As a tinkering author at the time, I could feel their pain. I knew what it was like to struggle over even some of the most minute details and not able to move past that to finish it. Perfection is an author's worse enemy. I had to stop re-reading my work because I would never be content and want to constantly change it. When I saw students with similar dilemmas I could understand what they were feeling.
Here are some strategies that I both teach and use to help writing be more fun and less stressful.
1. Come Up With A Plan: Writing is like taking a road trip. You need a plan for getting from point A to Point B, and with writing, it is more fun to take the scenic route! The only way you are going to make it to you destination is to have an outline of how you will start your story and how you will get to the end. Like taking a road trip, if you don't know what or where your destination is, you will never arrive. Writing always has a purpose, whether it is to share information with others, persuade people to think or act the way you believe they should, to express emotions with others, or to merely entertain the world around us. Knowing the purpose of your writing is important when planning it out. There are many graphic organizers on the internet, such as webs, that can help your young authors create an outline to "plan their trip" accordingly.
2. Just Write What You Are Thinking: I always tell students that it's better to have something down on paper than nothing at all. Every author has to have a starting place. In order to begin your journey you must...begin. Don't be afraid of making mistakes, especially when you first begin. No one is perfect and it's not supposed to be perfect! Which leads me to my last point...
3. Don't Be Afraid To Edit: I know I said that one of the worst things an author can do is constantly read and alter their work. However, some editing is necessary to make your writing better. You can only edit when you have something to edit. The editing process can be one of the most rewarding steps to writing because your story has truly come to life. Adding and changing adjectives is one of the best ways to see drastic improvement quickly. I strongly encourage students to learn how to use a Thesaurus. It is a great tool that helps students with varying and acquiring new words into their vocabulary. You will not only see a difference in their writing, but also their day to day language.
Hopefully these tips will help you as you cheer on your children through school and beyond. And with anything, the more you practice, the better you get.
If you have any words of encouragement or writing tips you would like to share, please comment below.
Happy writing!
